Sep 7Wealthy Dominatrix seeks Fetish Toy.. what are the odds?Do you fantasise about escaping your normal life? Hoping a wealthy fetishist will take you away from it all as their personal plaything? What are the odds? Let’s do some science! If you’re not a male with a short attention span, hold on — I’ll get round to figures you…Fetish5 min readFetish5 min read
Aug 17A Trans view of the Barbie movieSince this is apparently such a loaded topic that people are fighting over it, I’m going to have to start this with a little bit of political housekeeping: Many of the media responses to the film are political in nature, so not only are the reviewers trying to fit a…Transgender9 min readTransgender9 min read
May 7The AI Sessions: 1/Visual arts, artists and content creators — should you be worried?This is the first of a handful of posts on the dramatic rise of AI, and the effects it’s having on our world. In particular, I’m going to look at what it means for our visual world — from Oscar winning movie performances to Twitch streamers. If you trade on…Visual Artist4 min readVisual Artist4 min read
Sep 8, 2021Feminization 101: Crossdressing MenTrying to make a male look like they’re female? It’s both easier and harder than you think. Ironically, women are often the worst at feminizing men for reasons I’ll go into shortly. However, it is possible to achieve dramatic results with a slightly different approach. …Sexuality14 min readSexuality14 min read
Dec 16, 2020Lightning take: Star Trek and GenderGender politics and geek alert: Yup, it’s Star Trek time! I’ve finally caught up with Star Trek, and the infamous they/them scene. We’re a thousand years in the future, following the adventures of the crew of the star ship Discovery. In the most recent series, Adira Tal is a human…Gender3 min readGender3 min read
Oct 24, 2020Quick Note: Fetish PhotographyStrike a pose, there’s nothing to it.. That’s not true, is it? Getting a good photograph of yourself in a fetishy context, whether it’s cosplay, drag, fetish or just outfit of the day is actually not that easy. There’s a vast ocean of cringey images online, often ones we thought…Adult7 min readAdult7 min read
Jun 12, 2020Quick Note: Force Feminization FetishForced feminization is a very common trope, both confusing to those coming across it and problematic in its associations. Here’s a quick “what?”, “why?” and “so…?”. What? At it’s core, a male is reluctantly made to dress up, present and act ‘like a woman’. That’s where the common ground ends though…Fetish4 min readFetish4 min read
May 13, 2020Quick Note: Erotic HypnosisIs hypnosis real? Yes, it is. If you’ve ever got so completely lost in a film that you forget you’re in the theatre, you’ve been in a state very similar to hypnosis. If you’ve got to your destination without really remembering the drive — again, very similar. Hypnosis is about…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
May 2, 2020Dissassociation, Identity and FetishOne of the problems when it comes to kink, sexuality and gender seems to be two quite different views of the world. For some, the image of it defines the person. For others, these are two separate things. This is the difference between slut shaming, and slut walks. We see…Gender2 min readGender2 min read
Mar 31, 2020Alex is a PervertThere’s a story in my head that I’ve been wanting to bring to life for a while. This isn’t it. At least it’s not the creation, the book, the graphic novel, or even the first chapter. It’s just the outline. Don’t read if you don’t want spoilers to something that…Fiction9 min readFiction9 min read
